About Beth, Online Therapist & Counsellor UK

A space for you to be heard

About me

There was a period in my life when everything felt like too much to carry alone. What helped wasn’t advice or being told to look on the bright side — it was someone who held my pain alongside me and made time and space so I didn’t have to face it all by myself. I retrained as a therapist because I wanted to become that person for someone else.

That experience has shaped the therapist I am today. I don’t believe therapy should feel like another place to perform, explain yourself or hold it together. So much of what people carry — masking, burnout and the quiet exhaustion of people-pleasing — comes from years of adapting to be accepted. I wanted to create a space where you can put that down, even briefly, and explore your identity and sense of belonging without needing to justify either.

Inclusion isn’t something I’ve had to consciously add to my practice. It’s simply part of who I am and how I see the world, shaped by the people in my life and the communities I’ve been part of. It influences how I listen, the assumptions I avoid making, and my commitment to creating a space where you feel accepted as you are.

Outside of work, I spend a lot of my time outdoors – gardening, mostly, in ways that try to work with nature rather than against it.

My Ragdoll cat, Husky, supervises most of it from a safe distance.Beth Paterson's Ragdoll cat Husky relaxing in the garden.

How I work

My approach is rooted in person-centred therapy, which means our relationship is at the heart of the work we do together. Rather than following a set programme or offering advice, I’ll help you slow things down, make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface, and explore whatever feels most important to you.

Many of the people I work with have spent years looking as though they’re coping. They’re the ones others rely on, the ones who keep going, often while feeling anxious, overwhelmed or disconnected inside. Therapy can become one of the few places where you don’t have to hold it all together.

I’ll be alongside you with warmth, curiosity and honesty, helping you understand yourself more deeply rather than telling you who you should be. Sometimes that means exploring long-standing patterns like people-pleasing, perfectionism or self-criticism. Sometimes it means making space for grief, identity, relationships or simply the relief of saying things out loud for the first time.

My practice is trauma-informed and affirming of LGBTQ+ people, gender, sexuality and relationship diversity (GSRD), and neurodivergence. Whoever you are, I want you to feel that you can arrive exactly as you are, without having to explain, defend or minimise your experience before we begin.

Training & Qualifications

Qualifications matter, but I don’t believe they make someone a good therapist on their own. I continue to invest in regular professional development because the more I understand about trauma, neurodivergence, relationships and human experience, the better I can support the people who trust me with their stories.

I also believe that looking after myself is an important part of being an effective therapist. Making time for reflection, rest, creativity and the things that bring me joy helps me stay grounded and present, so I can offer the energy, attention and compassion that clients deserve.

Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity

  • Trans & Gender Diversity Scientific Factors – GIRES
  • Gender Across the Lifespan – Pink Therapy
  • Defining Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity Therapy – Pink Therapy

Trauma & Attachment

  • Bessel van der Kolk on How the Body Keeps the Score – PESI
  • Trauma & the Body: Dissociation & Somatisation – Carolyn Spring
  • Working with Relational Trauma & Disorganised Attachment – Carolyn Spring
  • Working with Shame – Carolyn Spring
  • Child Sexual Abuse: Hope for Healing – Carolyn Spring

Suicide, Self-Harm & Mental Health

  • Dealing with Distress: Suicide & Self-Harm – Carolyn Spring
  • Suicide Awareness for Everyone – SafeTALK
  • Mental Health First Aider – MHFA England
  • Level 2 Awareness of Mental Health Problems – Rotherham College
  • Adult Safeguarding – Social Care Institute for Excellence
  • British Red Cross Foundation Training

Eco-Therapy & Outdoor Practice

  • Eco-Psychotherapy – Confer
  • Introduction to Taking Therapy Practice Outdoors – White Peak Wellbeing

Online therapy can help you

feel calmer • understand yourself • build healthy boundaries • navigate relationships • reduce overwhelm • reconnect with yourself • grow your confidence • manage anxiety • recover from burnout • embrace your identity • overcome people-pleasing • find balance • feel more like yourself •feel calmer • understand yourself • build healthy boundaries • navigate relationships • reduce overwhelm • reconnect with yourself • grow your confidence • manage anxiety • recover from burnout • embrace your identity • overcome people-pleasing • find balance • feel more like yourself •

If you are in need of urgent support please contact the relevant NHS services, such as  your GP, local crisis line or call 111 or 999

If you are looking for someone to speak to right now, you may like to call Samaritans on 116123 or text Shout to 85258.